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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales High Court (Family Division) Decisions >> A & B (Children) [2013] EWHC 4150 (Fam) (20 December 2013) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWHC/Fam/2013/4150.html Cite as: [2013] EWHC 4150 (Fam) |
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FAMILY DIVISION
For the hearing sitting at the Newcastle District Registry
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
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F1 and F2 |
Applicant |
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M1 M2 X County Council A B (by her Guardian) |
Respondents |
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Victoria Green (instructed by BTMK) for M1
Mark Twomey (instructed by Goodman Ray) for M2
Daisy Hughes (instructed by County Solicitor) for X County Council
Siobhan Kelly (instructed by Miles & Partners) for A
Maggie Jones (instructed by Bindmans) for the Children's Guardian
Hearing dates: 11 and 12 December 2013
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Crown Copyright ©
For ease of reference:
F1 = The First Applicant
F2 = The Second Applicant
M1 = The First Respondent
M2 = The Second Respondent
A = The older child (aged 12)
B = The younger child (aged 8)
Mr Justice Cobb :
Introduction
(a) A, 12 years old,
and
(b) B, 8 years old.
Whether the girls should be removed from the care of their mother and her partner (I shall for present purposes refer to them as the mothers, and shall refer to the 'men' as the fathers) and placed in foster care.
This has been yet another staging-post along a long and tortuous path of family law litigation between the girls' parents.
(a) The services which are to be provided, and made available, by X County Council (in whose favour I have already made an interim supervision order) in respect of the placement of the girls, either at home or in foster care;
(b) Interim contact issues.
The specific ambit of this hearing was actually set out within a directions order which I made on 28 November 2013.
(a) I joined A to the proceedings as a party in her own right, and appointed a solicitor to act on her behalf;
(b) I gave directions about the filing of evidence and assessments; at that stage, the mothers' long-serving and jointly instructed solicitor had recently come off the record as acting; two newly instructed legal teams were endeavouring to master the filed material;
(c) I required each party to identify any kinship placement for the girls if they wished to do so.
(a) Read the written statements of the lay parties, and the reports and care plans of the professionals;
(b) Heard the oral evidence of the Children's Guardian, the social worker GBR, her team manager Ms AM and M2;
(c) Heard the submissions of the advocates on behalf of each of the parties.
(a) The Children's Guardian recommends the removal of the children to foster care; she is the primary advocate for this outcome. She advises that this removal should take place in the next few days. Thereafter, she supports there being some interim contact between B and the fathers and supervised daily telephone contact to the mothers and supervised bi-weekly contact to the mothers;
(b) The Guardian's position on placement is supported by the fathers; the fathers however seek an immediate resumption of weekend staying contact with B;
(c) The local authority seeks an interim supervision order and proposes a programme of support and work with the mothers, the fathers, and with the children (which I discuss below). They wish to facilitate direct contact between the B and the fathers in the next few days.
(d) The mothers support, or at least do not oppose, the position adopted by the local authority.
(e) A wishes to remain living with her mothers; she does not want contact with the fathers.
Events post-July 2013 judgment
Relevant to placement issues
(a) the inevitable balancing the risks of harm;
(b) the evidence of disorder of relationships and the distorted thinking in the women's home; the 'folie a quatre'
(c) the positive reports from A and B's schools ;
(d) my observations on the issue of the DNA testing;
(e) M1's mental ill-health, and in particular its impact on the children;
(f) domestic abuse between the mothers;
(g) the views of the children;
(h) my analysis of the evidence relevant to, and the reasons for/against, the children being removed from the care of the mothers; at that stage I made the point that removal may have a deleterious (and conceivably long lasting) effect on the well-being of M1.
Contact
(i) history of the demise of contact, and the comments on the positive quality of contact;
(j) the dissonance between what B said about the men, and presentation when B was seen with the men;
(k) the advice of Dr. Berelowitz for the men about accepting a "modest role" and not pushing "the daddy business";
(l) Dr Berelowitz's concerns about M2's position on contact;
(m) my consideration of whether attempts at contact should be abandoned (and my rejection of that option at that time);
(n) Five years ago there was a relationship – a significant relationship – between the girls and the men; this was "before the battle started". At that time, A told her Guardian that she wanted things to be like they were.
"We could justify a transitional move to foster care if there is a very high likelihood indeed that it will lead to a resumption of a strong relationship with the men, with this relationship growing and consolidating over time, while retaining a relationship with the women. My own view is this is at best a possibility, and is far from a probability. We would have for example to countenance [A] running away or self-harming – do we persist with the plan under such circumstances? I think not."
"I am afraid that I have little doubt that if they are to be left where they are, M2 at least is likely to see this as a comprehensive vindication of her previous views, and I am afraid not likely to have a nuanced approach … leaving them where they are may in the end be the most compassionate (albeit exceptionally unsatisfactory) option of all the unsatisfactory available alternatives. … this question should depend mostly on the overall quality of care that the girls are now receiving, and should depend less on the more unknown issue of whether the move into foster care would ever lead to a restoration of contact with the men…
In other words if the current care of the children is clearly not good enough, and cannot be remedied then a move to foster care becomes potentially justifiable. But if the current care is just about good enough, then we may unfortunately have to view the situation as one of the possible tragic outcomes of assisted fertilisation and furthermore one which can no longer be undone or reversed. In that case we should now leave the girls be" (emphasis by underlining added).
(a) [per W]: that the parental role (and general confidence) of M1 was being eroded by M2, that M2 badly denigrated the fathers, and that contact has been sabotaged in the past;
(b) [per X] that M2 referred to F1 as the "sperm donor"; the relationship between M1 and M2 was causing harm to the children (M1 being fearful of and controlled by M2); she further referred to M2's 'unprofessonalism', lack of honesty, M2's derogatory description of M1's illness, the difficulty with placing M2 under scrutiny.
(a) Information from the mothers' family members expressing concerns about dysfunctional family life, involving domestic abuse and its impact on the children;
(b) That the children have experienced significant harm, by exposure to M1's mental illness, and the negativity surrounding contact;
(c) B expressing some interest in seeing the men, and wanting to visit the fathers in their home; she had (encouragingly, and perhaps surprisingly in the circumstances) acknowledged to the social worker that "I know that they love me" (the men);
(d) B was saying that she felt safer at school than at home (the social worker thought that this was context-specific to what they were discussing); it is to be noted that A is said to be "achieving well" at school, and L is "performing above average… rarely fazed emotionally".
(e) That the children are "vocal, self-assured, mature and kind, loved by their peers and achieving very well at school. It would be hard to deny the positive impact of the good parenting they have received through the years by both their mothers"; the children enjoy a "good level of basic care…"
(f) The relationship between the adults feels "almost irretrievable" at this stage.
(a) V (M1's sister) speaks of having had limited recent contact with the family; but expresses concerns about M1's mental health;
(b) Y (M1's sister) comments on the 'damaging' relationship between M1 and M2, domestic abuse, M1's ill-health, the denigration of the fathers, the damage to the children, the incident in Toronto (when M2 and the children abandoned M1);
(c) Z (M1's niece) speaks of domestic abuse in front of the children, M2's manipulative behaviour; stress on the children.
Threshold
A's view
The evidence
(a) Domestic abuse between the mothers; she (and the fathers, through their counsel) felt that this issue had become more sharply focused since the July hearing (especially given the statement of the family members and associates);
(b) M1's mental ill-health (again, with reference to the statements of the family members and associates);
(c) M2's ability to manage M1's ill-health (ditto);
(d) M2's behaviour in any event (ditto);
(e) M2's failure to promote contact, and the denigration of the fathers. The children are given very negative views about their natural parents; the Guardian (and fathers') concerns about this had been considerably strengthened by all of the evidence received in recent weeks.
"I phoned M1 to ask [B] about contact, I asked for permission. M1 had said that would be fine. I then phoned M2, and she was encouraging me to speak to [B]. … M2 asked me to come by and visit her and [P] on the way back from the school. M2 did not object. They were encouraging me [to interview contact]."
(a) It is envisaged that M1 will continue to receive the mental health support of Dr. R; perhaps significantly, he has recently introduced CPN services for M1, and home visits for the family (there had been visits apparently on 4 and 5 December 2013);
(b) Social work visiting of the family will take place once per week or twice per week; these visits will provide opportunities to assess family functioning, and individual and collective discussions of the issues arising, with the family members;
(c) Life-story work will be carried out with the girls: the social worker has commenced this work; it is being undertaken through the medium of words and pictures (art therapy – not previously used in this case); this is not, she emphasised, about "closure" of the relationship between the fathers and the girls; "it is about understanding their lives". The social worker felt (and I accept) that the girls are or may well be confused about their lives; this work is designed (she emphasised) to support the girls' contact with their fathers; she confidently told me that she is an "excellent art therapist" and while not having seen any work, I was inclined to the view (given her confident assertion, and her training and experience) that she probably was. She told me later in her oral evidence that she hoped that this work would address the issue of the perception of F1 as a "sperm-donor" (as per A's position statement); she felt that it was not particularly difficult to undertake this work while the children are at home; she told me that she could not put a fixed time-frame on the piece of work; I understand that.
(d) The social worker would want to interview the mothers more fully, and to undertake some direct work with them in their parenting of the children, particularly at crisis points;
(e) The social worker will be making referrals for expert support for the girls – to reinstate CAMHS – this time on a referral from XCC; the social worker felt (and I agree) that a number of issues have not been addressed with the children thus far;
(f) There will be a referral to an organisation such as the Freedom Programme (though not this specific one) for M1 and M2; there are specific domestic abuse agencies for lesbian couples who experience domestic abuse; she wished to find a resource which would be helpful for these specific adults; the social worker indicated that she had taken into account (when trying to identify the right resource) the fact that these are intelligent women and that M1 is a psychotherapist, who would understand something of the dynamics of the relationship herself;
(g) The social worker proposed direct work with the fathers themselves; to help them to deal with their bereavement and loss; she would like to work with them on issues around the contact; she emphasised that this was not work addressing a terminal outcome for contact; this is about communication loss;
(h) A Family Group Conference is planned: this will be convened to allow the family to discuss a number of issues, including their understanding of the domestic abuse issues, the mental health of M1, and the need for respite care for the children (to name a few); the social worker is keen to bring the extended family into the 'tent', instead of leaving them (as at present) outside of it. (I interpolate to say that M2 indicated that she thought that this would be "vital"; that respite would be useful; they needed to have more information about the current situation);
(i) The children will be the subject of a child in need plan;
I add here that:
(j) M2 suggested further that M1 could benefit from help with her drinking.
"There shall be reasonable interim contact between [B] and the fathers. This shall take place on 16 December, supervised by the social worker, and for a duration as may be determined by the social worker. Thereafter the contact shall take place at a frequency and duration as may be determined by the social worker in consultation with [B]."
Discussion
(a) I myself have not had the opportunity to test these accounts; the 'complainants' (as I shall call them) have not given evidence;
(b) Some of the concerns raised are quite historical;
(c) While there is a consistency to the accounts, this may be attributable to discussions between the complainants;
(d) There is no evidence that these complainants have had access to the home in the recent past; indeed it is said that they have not had such access;
(e) There is evidence that Y and Z saw M1 and M2 as recently as early-September, and had not indicated any concern (this meeting is referred to in the F's statements: "[M1] was not in a good way… she said she felt she had no say in the court hearings and decisions");
(f) W and X are currently engaged in a civil dispute with M2 in relation to their jointly shared business.
(a) There is a significant value for these children in there being more direct, focused, support for their current placement, rather than exclusive focus on the single issue of contact;
(b) It will be greatly in the interests of the children for them to undergo some life story work, so that the children can glean a better sense of their heritage and family relations;
(c) The children will benefit from some independent support from a professional worker (i.e. the social worker); although the Guardian considered that the girls may need more expert assistance, it is notable that the social worker believes that she has started to develop a relationship with the family and specifically the girls;
(d) A family Group conference is to be held imminently; such a meeting has been held in the past but with limited (if any) benefit. Such meetings are generally particularly effective in making safe plans for children, involving members of the wider family network; they are often helpful in assisting social services to divert children away from the care system. It is now apparent there has been a low level of understanding in the wider family about the problems which has existed in M1 and M2's relationship, and of M1's mental health; there plainly need to be better access to the supports of the family;
(e) There has been limited community based support to assist the family in coping with the management of M1's mental health, the couple's relationship (domestic abuse), and the dynamics of the couple generally. While casting some doubt about the efficacy of social work intervention, the Guardian acknowledged that hitherto no structured work has been done, and time had come for this to be remedied.
Placement: the Order
"The linear approach, in my view, is not apt where the judicial task is to undertake a global, holistic evaluation of each of the options available for the child's future upbringing before deciding which of those options best meets the duty to afford paramount consideration to the child's welfare".
"A care order would be warranted where there was reason to suppose that the parents would not accept the advice and guidance of the local authority as to the way in which they should be meeting their parental responsibilities. In that situation the parents could not be allowed to be the only people with those responsibilities".
(a) she accepts the contents of the filed care plan of the X County Council in respect of the children;
(b) she will fully co-operate with the X County Council in the implementation of its care plan, and will accept directions from them in that regard (even if not at this stage explicitly agreed by her);
Interim contact
Further directions
[END]