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IN THE FAMILY COURT
SITTING AT [TOWN STATED]
IN THE MATTER OF THE CHILDREN ACT 1989
AND IN THE MATTER OF: C (CHILDREN)
B e f o r e :
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Re: C (Children) |
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Solicitor for the Mother: Mr Gordon
Counsel for the Father: Miss Garnham
Counsel for the Children/Guardian: Miss Bond
Hearing date: 21st December 2016
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THE HONOURABLE MR JUSTICE BODEY:
"…based on the parents' comments to me, both when I met with them jointly and individually, it would very much appear that they do now have an understanding and acceptance of the findings, with the added development since their most recent statements in July 2016 that both parents now appear to concede that they did collude with one another in order to sustain their attempt to mislead professionals, the police and the court between September 2015 and February 2016.
From my perspective, as well as confirming their acknowledgement of the findings, during my discussions with them they were willing to reflect on their understanding of those findings; though in respect of collusion, I am of the view that the father appeared more willing to concede this point with the mother presenting as more reluctant to do so with her continuing to show a degree of ambiguity as to when and how much she knew of the father's role in causing the injuries to Y.
…I would also have to highlight the couple's position as outlined in their more recent statements and most definitely in their meetings with me as to their relief at not having to maintain their dishonest approach; with the clear implication from my perspective, that maintaining a joint dishonest approach had proved stressful for the couple and, in my view, likely introduced significant further tension into their relationship, with the further implication that, knowing this, they would be highly unlikely to enter into any future deception with any enthusiasm, aware of the stress and tension which such an approach inevitably brings to those following it".
"Whilst it is obviously crucial for those seeking to ensure the future safety of X and Y that an understanding of how the injuries were caused to Y is now available and agreed by all parties, it is also of major importance to understand why the parents chose to mislead the authorities and in particular the parents' understanding of the lasting impact of this on the confidence that professionals and others can have in them. From my discussions with the parents I am of the view that they do have that understanding, though my individual meeting with the mother would suggest that she may find it more difficult than the father to fully concede the concerns of others as to her somewhat ambiguous approach to when and how much she knew of the father's actions during the night in September 2015 that led to the injuries to Y".
i) The father's own troubled childhood leading him to have a strong sense of wanting to assert his independence, coupled with limitations which the couple had now accepted in discussion with Dr L as regards their communication with one another at the material time about key issues and feelings;
ii) Dr L referred to the fact that the parties seem to have harboured an ill-founded belief that they were being judged differently from other parents of children with complex needs, making them reluctant to share with professionals their sense of exhaustion in coping with the extra demands imposed on them by the fact of caring for X with her considerable disabilities and Y following his premature birth;
iii) Dr L noted a dynamic in the relationship of the parties whereby the father felt resentful of what he, the father, perceived as the mother's appearing to know more about parenting than he did, but that the couple did not talk about that and 'just fell out';
iv) Dr L repeated the pressures which Y's premature birth would have brought to the couple leading to quarrels and a distant and tense relationship between them which they had by now admitted to him;
v) Dr L makes the point that the complex needs of X may well have disguised for these parents (particularly the father) the fact that many of the pressures imposed on them by X would be pressures imposed on parents by any infant, thereby causing the father to have inappropriate expectations of Y.
"As a result, a likely scenario developed where the demands on the couple began to swiftly outstrip their resources to meet those demands; with the couple likely aware of this at some level but unable in particular (due to their need to present as capable and coping and the lack of full and frank communication between them as to their feelings) to acknowledge this mismatch between their resources and the demands placed on them by having to care for two young children leading, I would suggest, to them becoming increasingly exhausted and beginning to harbour feelings of resentment towards one another… It seems very likely that all of the above came to a head on the night in question in September 2015 particularly in the case of the father with him by his own self-report being particularly worried in respect of X, exhausted due to lack of sleep, resentful of the mother and with no effective outlet for the stress he was feeling, with likely feelings of inadequacy on his part in that he was unable to soothe Y, leading to a major breakdown in any barriers to him acting in such an unacceptable and violent manner".
"…have [now] been able to recognise the enormity of the father's actions in causing the injuries and the enormity of their joint attempt to mislead professionals, the police and the court as to how those injuries came about; that they can acknowledge the full range of findings made by Mr Justice Bodey and from my perspective have already embarked on changes in respect of the factors relating to the father's emotional and psychological state that were likely implicated in his injurious actions…"
Accordingly, and on balance, Dr L was of the opinion that:
"…with a clearly structured programme of monitoring and support, the risks that would be posed to the children if they were to be returned to the parents' care could be effectively managed".
He then went on to recommend further work with the parents, which the local authority now has in hand. He found that they showed what he described as:
"…a clear ability and willingness to explore, challenge and change their perception of themselves and of each other… and have both significantly increased their understanding of the father's anger, the circumstances which constitute a trigger for such anger and his ability to control and manage his temper, with them both appearing very aware of the potential consequences should he not be able to do so".