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You are here: BAILII >> Databases >> England and Wales High Court (Family Division) Decisions >> F v M [2021] EWHC 3133 (Fam) (23 November 2021) URL: http://www.bailii.org/ew/cases/EWHC/Fam/2021/3133.html Cite as: [2021] EWHC 3133 (Fam) |
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FAMILY DIVISION
Strand, London, WC2A 2LL |
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B e f o r e :
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Applicant |
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M |
Respondent |
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Miss Maggie Jones (instructed by Duncan Lewis) for the Respondent
Hearing dates: 17th November 2021
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Crown Copyright ©
This judgment was delivered in private. The judge has given leave for this version of the judgment to be published on condition that (irrespective of what is contained in the judgment) in any published version of the judgment the anonymity of the children and members of their family must be strictly preserved. All persons, including representatives of the media, must ensure that this condition is strictly complied with. Failure to do so will be a contempt of court.
The Honourable Mr Justice Hayden :
i That the applicant father coercively controlled the respondent mother throughout the relationship by preventing her access to ante-natal care, isolating her from her family, friends and peers, controlling her money and food and deliberately curtailing her freedom, also amounting to emotional abuse.
ii That the applicant father raped the respondent mother, probably on more than one occasion, during their marriage.
iii That the applicant father's conduct during the relationship, resulted in Y being exposed to emotional harm.
Specific findings in judgment
iv the sinister, domineering and, frequently, tyrannising complexion of F's behaviour
v F's behaviour strikes me as sadistic and it requires to be identified as such
vi In his evidence I found F to be histrionic, self-pitying and manipulative
vii I consider F to be a profoundly dangerous young man, dangerous to women who he identifies as vulnerable and dangerous to children. The risks he presents to women are not only to their emotional and physical well-being but also, in the light of my findings, to their sexual safety. It is clear that he has the capacity to cause much harm and distress to those who cross him more generally, particularly those within the sphere of the women he controls. It has been a disturbing case to hear.
viii It is an understatement in this case to say that F lacks credibility. He is at times a fantasist.
"As detailed earlier within this report, [F] has not engaged with me during the course of my assessment and therefore I have no direct knowledge of his views or opinions on the issues before the court. From the information within the court papers, it appears that he does not recognise that he has perpetrated domestic abuse. His behaviour is indicative of severe coercive controlling behaviour, including sexual, physical and emotional abuse. Without [F] having accepted or addressed his behaviour, I am of the view that he continues to present a high risk to the children and [M]." (paragraph 29)
"I have considered [F's] capacity for change, from the information available to me I have formed the view that, it does not appear [F] recognises that he has perpetrated domestic abuse. Nor has he been able to demonstrate insight into the consequences of his behaviour or taken any responsibility for his actions. [F] has not demonstrated a willingness to change but rather he continues to challenge the findings made about him and preserve his needs in securing that the information against him within these proceedings is not disclosed to the police or immigration services." (paragraph 35)
"I would like the Court to know that since reading the Judgement, I have been taking the time to work on myself. In particular, I have made enquiries with the Centre for Justice Innovation as to the 'Promoting Positive Relationship Programme' which is an integrated group work intervention programme developed for adult males who have demonstrated the potential to be abusive in intimate relationships. This programme focuses on providing cognitive and behavioural skills and tools to support and promote the use of positive behaviours within intimate relationships. I am in agreement to the terms of participation in this programme and am prepared to attend this course."
The programme runs for 6 months over a maximum of 24 sessions, each 2 hours long. The initial 3 months occur on a one-to-one basis and the following 3 months take place in a group format. The sessions will take place once a week and are currently running on a virtual basis. The organisation hopes to resume in person sessions in due course and they have confirmed to me that there is currently availability on the programme."
"F makes this application in order to protect himself against self-incrimination. As set out in this document, the nature of these proceedings are such that F is in a position where he must choose whether to stay entirely silent in these proceedings to avoid incriminating himself or whether to engage with questions put to him about the extent to which he 'accepts' the findings that have been made against him. That applies both in respect of his own application for Child Arrangements Orders or in his defence of the Mother's application to 'remove' his parental responsibility."
"For the reasons set out in this document, that position is neither 'fair', within the meaning of Article 6 ECHR and the Overriding Objective, nor is it in the best interests of the subject children within the meaning of s.1(3) Children Act 1989."
"F will say that the most appropriate means by which this court should redress that position is to rule that any statement or admission that he makes (if any) will not be disclosed to the police. By removing the prospect of F incriminating himself in that way, both parents will have the opportunity for full engagement within the court process, and the proceedings will operate most effectively in the best interests of the children."
"(1)The right of a person in any legal proceedings other than criminal proceedings to refuse to answer any question or produce any document or thing if to do so would tend to expose that person to proceedings for an offence or for the recovery of a penalty—
(a)shall apply only as regards criminal offences under the law of any part of the United Kingdom and penalties provided for by such law; and
(b)shall include a like right to refuse to answer any question or produce any document or thing if to do so would tend to expose the spouse or civil partner of that person to proceedings for any such criminal offence or for the recovery of any such penalty."
"98 Self-incrimination.
(1) In any proceedings in which a court is hearing an application for an order under Part IV or V, no person shall be excused from—
(a) giving evidence on any matter; or
(b) answering any question put to him in the course of his giving evidence, on the ground that doing so might incriminate him or his spouse of an offence.
(2) A statement or admission made in such proceedings shall not be admissible in evidence against the person making it or his spouse in proceedings for an offence other than perjury."
i. the welfare and the interest of the child concerned and of other children generally;
ii. the maintenance of confidentiality in children cases and the importance of encouraging frankness;
iii. the public interest in the administration of justice and the prosecution of serious crime;
iv. the gravity of the alleged offence and the relevance of the evidence to it;
v. the desirability of co-operation between the various agencies concerned with the welfare of children;
vi. in cases where s 98(2) applies, fairness to the person who has incriminated himself and any others affected by the incriminating statement;
vii. any other material disclosure which has already taken place.
"Any statement or admission made by the applicant father, at any stage of these proceedings, in relation to the findings made against him by the court in its judgment dated 15 January 2021 shall not be disclosed to the police or the Crown Prosecution Service"
"[8] It must be the case in private law proceedings no less than in public law cases that the court should do all it can to encourage as well as require frankness from witnesses and, in particular, from parents. More so in private law cases than in those under Part IV is the court dependent for the accuracy of its information on the evidence of parents. These cases have far less external investigation as a rule and far more does the court have to find facts based on an evaluation of the evidence of parents. Frankness is therefore a rich evidential jewel in this jurisdiction."
"[9] I recognise, of course, that frankness cannot come at any cost and the court must also have regard to the gravity of the offence, in particular where that offence may put at risk these or other children, and the court cannot close its mind to public policy issues where grave crime is involved. The court must also have regard to the welfare of the children concerned. Indeed I recognise that in fact every issue set out in Re C (A Minor) (Care Proceedings: Disclosure) may well be relevant. However, it would be my view given both the need for parental honesty and the absence of s 98(2) protection, that the need for encouraging frankness might well be accorded greater weight in private law proceedings and that accordingly the court might be more disinclined to order disclosure."
"He will have no idea what will or will not be disclosed; he will have no idea to what extent he is actually incriminating himself before he makes a statement. Anything he says could, on the face of it, be used against him as evidence in a criminal process or trial."
"38. The stakes in this case are extremely high; higher than in many other cases, because the findings made by the court against F are so serious. The likely consequence of the court not grappling with this issue now, is that F will have no choice but to remain silent. That, it is submitted, is an unreasonable interference with his Article 6 Right to a fair trial.
39. The further consequence is that these proceedings cannot operate in the best interests of the children. If one parent is left unable to fully engage because they cannot assess the extent to which they will be incriminating themselves that will, more likely than not, serve to limit or prevent any effective welfare analysis or therapeutic process, and mean that the children have a much higher risk of having no relationship with one of their parents."