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1. This
case concerns the future life of a child, whom I shall refer to as R. There
are two sets of proceedings before the Court, in which related issues arise.
In the first proceedings, which were initiated by Special Summons issued the
30th day of July 1997, JB and DB, a married couple with whom R. has been placed
with a view to adoption, seek an Order pursuant to Section 3 of the Adoption
Act, 1974, dispensing with the consent of the mother of the child R. to the
making of an Adoption Order in respect of the child together with an Order
granting them sole custody of the child R. for such period as would enable An
Bord Uchtala to make an Adoption Order. As is the practice in these cases the
named Respondent is An Bord Uchtala (the Adoption Board) and through the Board
the mother of R. is joined in the proceedings. The mother, S.M., opposes the
making of the Order sought.
2. The
Applicants, who have applied for an Adoption Order in respect of R., and the
natural mother, S.M., have met on one occasion at a meeting arranged by Saint
Louise's Adoption Society, but are unaware of the full details of each others
identities and addresses. In accordance with the practice which was originally
set out by Finlay P. (as he then was) in
G.
v. An Bord Uchtala
[1980] IR 32 and which has been followed in all cases under Section 3 of the
Adoption Act, 1974, this Court heard the natural mother and the evidence
relevant to her situation in the absence of the prospective adopters but in the
presence of their legal representatives. Subsequently, the Court heard the
prospective adopters and the evidence relevant to their application in the
absence of the natural mother but in the presence of her legal representatives.
Both sets of proceedings were heard by this Court on 3rd November 1998 and the
following days.
3. In
the second set of proceedings, which were initiated by Special Summons on the
28th day of January 1998, the natural mother seeks an Order pursuant to Section
11 of the Guardianship of Infants Act, 1964, returning the child R. to her
custody.
4. Much
of the factual background to the issue of the proceedings is not in issue and
may be outlined at this point. At a later stage I will deal in further detail
with the more contentious aspects of the evidence in the light of the law
concerning the placement of a child for adoption by its mother.
5. The
child R. was born to S.M. on the 19th of December 1995. S.M. is and has been
at all times unmarried. S.M. already had two children, C born 5th May 1990 and
J born the 26th February 1994. Since the issue of the proceedings S.M. has
given birth to a fourth child who was born on the 4th of February 1998. The
father of C was one P.H. with whom S.M. lived for a time in a local authority
rented flat in the Dublin area. On the evidence before me there is some
controversy as to the paternity of J, to which I will refer later. Apart from
a period from December 1990 to February 1992, when C was in the care of the
Eastern Health Board pursuant to Orders made by the District Court, both C and
J have been in the continuous custody and care of S.M. and it is agreed on the
evidence that she cares for them capably and well.
6. The
father of R. is one M.B. who is at present serving a lengthy term of
imprisonment, having pleaded guilty to the manslaughter of two women. S.M.
appears to have had a live-in relationship for a period of some months with
M.B. in a premises in the inner city of Dublin. Her evidence is that the
relationship was marked with considerable violence, that R. was born as a
result of rape by M.B., and that M.B. exercised a very high degree of control
over her. M.B. was arrested and charged with murder on the 24th of June 1995.
He was remanded in custody and was not granted bail. On the 3rd of May 1996 he
pleaded guilty to manslaughter of two women and was sentenced by Carney J. A
full sentencing judgment was given by the learned Carney J. setting out the
nature and background of the offences. The details of M.B.'s offences, are to
say the least, both shocking and gruesome.
7. On
2nd April 1996 M.B. signed a consent to the adoption of his son R. by Mr. and
Mrs B, the present Applicants.
8. S.M.
has since in or about May 1996 had a relationship with F.O'D., to whom she is
now engaged to be married. F.O'D. does not live with S.M., who is now living
in a three-bedroom local authority flat. They plan to purchase a house in the
countryside relatively near Dublin. For some time S.M. and F.O'D. believed
that F.O'D. was unable to father children for medical reasons, but this fear
has proved to be unfounded since they now have a child born on 4th February
1998.
9. In
the months leading to the birth of R., S.M. consistently expressed to Social
Workers in the Rotunda Hospital and in her local community care area of the
Eastern Health Board her wish that the child be placed for adoption. She
expressed no interest in advice regarding any alternative plan for the child's
care, stating that the child was the child of rape and that she could not
accept or care for the child of M.B. given all the circumstances of its
paternity and conception. When R. was born he was not placed in the hospital
ward with her but retained in a separate paediatric ward. She appears to have
visited him in the hospital on one occasion, bringing him some clothes. In
view of her stated wish that the child be placed for adoption it was explained
to her that R. would be placed in temporary foster care prior to any placement
with prospective adopters. This is the normal procedure carried out by
adoption societies with regard to placing any child for adoption. It has the
advantage both of permitting the natural mother to recover from the birth and
to decide whether, once the child is born, she still wishes for adoption, and
also of allowing time to select prospective adopters who are best suited to
that particular child and who meet any express wishes of the natural mother.
The Adoption Society in this case was the Saint Louise Adoption Society which
is a society under the aegis of the Eastern Health Board.
10. On
3rd January 1996 S.M. signed an Admission to Care Form permitting R. to be
placed in short-term foster care. Under the heading
"Circumstances
leading to Admission"
the Form states
"Pre-Adoptive
placement needed"
.
R. was placed in the short-term foster care of Mrs G.S. and it was stated on
the form that the probable duration of the stay would be eight weeks. In fact
R. stayed with his foster mother for some six months until 15th June 1996, when
he was placed with Mr. and Mrs B. with a view to adoption. Since that date he
has been continuously in the custody and care of Mr. and Mrs B. He is now
three years of age.
11. During
the foster placement S.M. was brought on two occasions by her Social Worker
Keith O'Reilly to visit R., on 21st March 1996 and on 12th June 1996. Mr.
O'Reilly's evidence is that the second visit was for the purpose of saying
good-bye to R. before he was placed for adoption; S.M. disagrees with this
interpretation.
12. Following
the placement of R. in foster care S.M. returned to reside with her two older
children. She was seen from time to time by her Social Worker, Keith O'Reilly.
On 9th April 1996 she signed the Statutory Form prescribed under the Adoption
Acts (Form 10) agreeing to the placement of R. for adoption. The events
surrounding her signing of this form are hotly disputed and I shall refer to
them at a later stage when considering in more detail the evidence of the
relevant witnesses.
13. On
the 5th June 1996 a pre-arranged meeting was held at which S.M. met the
prospective adopters Mr. and Mrs B. in the company of S.M.'s Social Worker and
Ms Anne Valentine, the Social Worker for Mr. and Mrs B. Only Christian names
were used and no details of identification were given. Such a meeting is in
full accordance with present day adoption practice; it enables the natural
mother to meet and approve the couple with whom her child is to be placed for
adoption and also enables the prospective adopters to have some knowledge of
the natural mother which may, at a later stage, be passed on to the child. The
meeting appears to have gone well. Again its details are to some extent in
issue.
14. Subsequent
to the meeting, as I have said, R. was placed with Mr. and Mrs B. on 15th June
1996. All the evidence before me establishes that the placement has gone
extremely well. Mr. and Mrs B. have given excellent care to R. (whom they call
C.) and he has formed a strong and loving bond with them and the members of
their extended family. Mr. B. is by profession a Analytical Chemist. Mrs B.
is a Primary Teacher who has taken a career break to enable her to care
full-time for R. at home.
15. On
the 9th of July 1996 Mr. and Mrs B. applied to An Bord Uchtala for an Adoption
Order in respect of R.. (Form 1 under the Adoption Acts). They have been
visited by the Board's Social Worker for the purposes of assessing the placement.
16. On
the 24th of October 1996 S.M. informed her Social Worker, Keith O'Reilly that
she was intending to marry F.O'D. and that she wished R. to be returned to her.
She was informed by Mr. O'Reilly that she should write to Saint Louise Adoption
Society to inform the Society of her change of mind. She did this by letter
dated the 13th November 1996. The prospective adopters were informed; they
were unwilling to return R. as they felt it was in his best interest to remain
in their care. S.M. was informed that she should consult a Solicitor with a
view to taking proceedings for the return of her child and it appears that she
was given information in regard to the availability of Civil Legal Aid, in
particular the address of her nearest Law Centre. However, she did not seek
legal advice until some time had elapsed.
17. During
this period S.M. experienced some changes of mind with regard to her wish to
reclaim custody of R. On the 10th of December 1996 she informed her Social
Worker that after discussions with her family and F.O'D. she had decided that
it was in R.'s best interest to be adopted by the prospective adopters. A
meeting with the adopters was arranged for 16th December 1996 at which it was
planned that S.M. would be reassured that R. was making good progress. However
on 13th December 1996 S.M. informed her Social Worker that in fact she did wish
R. to be returned to her and she did not attend the planned meeting. Mr. and
Mrs B. did attend at the local Health Centre on that day. They gave a
photograph of R. and a letter in regard to his progress to Keith O'Reilly, who
delivered it to S.M.'s flat. It appears that she greatly resented this,
regarding it, as far as I could ascertain from her evidence, as an underhand
procedure.
18. During
the next few months Keith O'Reilly states that he made various efforts to
contact S.M. by delivering notes to her flat but there does not in fact appear
to have been much contact with her. On the 21st of March 1997 he met S.M. with
her partner F.O'D., who stated that he supported S.M. in whatever plans she had
in regard to R. The couple stated that they had now taken legal advice in
regard to the recovery of R..
19. Keith
O'Reilly saw S.M. again on the 2nd May 1997 when he visited her at her flat.
On this occasion, according to Keith O'Reilly's contemporaneous notes, she
informed him that "following much thought and discussion on the subject both
with F.O'D. and her immediate family she was willing for R. to remain with the
B. family". She also told Keith O'Reilly that she had not in fact sought legal
advice in regard to R. at any stage. She asked for a further meeting with the
Bs to discuss R.'s progress. However she did not attend at a subsequent
appointment with Keith O'Reilly and thereafter he was unable to make any
contact with her. S M asserts tht Keith O'Reilly at this stage repeatedly
tried to make her sign a final consent form. On the evidence before me there
is no basis for this assertion. At no stage was a final consent form produced
to S M, nor was she ever asked to sign such a form.
20. On
3rd September 1997 S.M. attended the Rotunda Hospital in regard to her new
pregnancy. There she informed Sheila McRory, a Social Worker in the Hospital,
that she wished to have R. returned to her.
21. On
the 22nd of April 1997 the Registrar of An Bord Uchtala wrote to Eugene Davy,
the Solicitor acting for Mr. and Mrs B. stating:-
22. Mr.
and Mrs B. instructed their Solicitor to issue proceedings, which was done by
Special Summons on the 30th of July 1997.
23. The
Registrar of an Bord Uchtala also wrote to S.M. on the 22nd of April 1997
advising her of the possibility of instituting legal proceedings to reclaim her
child and enclosing a list of Civil Legal Aid Law Centres and their addresses.
S.M. did not in fact seek legal advice until after her meeting at the Rotunda
Hospital with Social Worker Sheila McRory in or about August or September 1997.
She then contacted her local Law Centre who gave her an appointment on 7th
October 1997 and issued proceedings on her behalf on 28th January 1998.
24. It
is settled law that in deciding whether a mother has validly agreed to place
her child for adoption the test is whether she has given a fully informed and
free consent to the placement. This test was first established in the various
judgment in
G.
v. An Bord Uchtala
and was subsequently set out in summary form by Finlay P. (as he then was) in
S.
v. Eastern Health Board
,
an unreported but much quoted judgment delivered on the 28th February, 1979.
At page 18 of the judgment the learned Judge, having analysed the judgments of
the Supreme Court in
G.
v. An Bord Uchtala
,
stated:-
25. There
was some controversy between the judgments of the Supreme Court in
G.
v. An Bord Uchtala
as to whether the unmarried mother's right to custody of her child was
Constitutional in origin, and as to whether at the point when she agreed to
place her child for adoption she waived or abrogated this Constitutional right.
In quite a number of the cases on Section 3 of the 1974 Act which followed
G.
v. An Bord Uchtala
it was accepted by the Court that the mother at the agreement to place stage of
the adoption procedure waived her Constitutional right to custody - an attitude
which gave particular weight and solemnity to that agreement. Any doubts as to
the effect of an agreement place for adoption on the rights of the mother has
been resolved by the Supreme Court in
M.O'C
v. Sacred Heart Adoption Society and An Bord Uchtala
[1996] ILRM 297. In his judgment in this case O'Flaherty J. with the agreement
of the other members of the Court, held that a consent to placement for
adoption can never amount, in itself, to an extinguishment of the mother's
rights to care for, protect and have custody of her child, whether they are
categorised as constitutional or legal rights. At page 304 of the report he
adopted Henchy J.'s description of the scheme envisaged by the adoption code in
the G. case:-
26. In
his judgment in the M.O'C. case O'Flaherty J. also stated that the consequences
of placement for adoption must be explained very clearly to the mother. He
quoted and affirmed the test set out by Finlay C.J. in
Re.
G. (D) (an infant) G v. An Bord Uchtala & Ors
[1991]
1IR 491 at page 515, as follows:
27. In
agreeing to place her child for adoption the mother's consent must not only be
fully informed but must also be free. The nature of a free consent is
considered by the learned Laffoy J. in
G.
(D) and G. (M) v. An Bord Uchtála
reported at [1996] IFLR 263. It seems to me that it is useful to refer to this
discussion in full, as follows:
29. It
is in this context, therefore, of a fully informed and free consent, that I
must consider the evidence given before me as to the mother's agreement to
place her child for adoption with Mr. and Mrs B.
30. In
her evidence S.M., the mother, claims that at the time when she purported to
agree to place R. for adoption firstly she was suffering from both stress and
depression and was suffering the side effects of medication; secondly that she
had no real understanding of the difference between fostering and adoption; and
thirdly that her social worker, Keith O'Reilly, did not give her any
explanation whatever of form 10, the statutory agreement to place form which
she signed in April 1996. Nor, she says, did he offer her any counselling to
assist her in her situation. She also claims that Mr. O'Reilly repeatedly
pressed her to sign the form of Final Consent to Adoption. In reference to her
meeting with Mr and Mrs B. on the 5th June, 1996 her evidence is that she
considered that Mr and Mrs B were somewhat longer term foster parents and that
she never understood that they were prospective adopters.
31. Dr
Anne Staunton, Clinical Psychologist, gave evidence on behalf of S.M.. She had
assessed S.M. for the purpose of these proceedings on the 17th April, 1998 and
had carried out a number of psychological tests. She concluded that S.M. was
of average intellectual ability, but at the lower end of the average range.
While her reading age was only 14.7 years, and her scores on vocabulary,
arithmetic and general knowledge were low, she scored well on abstract verbal
reasoning and on social comprehension. There was no indication of serious
emotional or personality disorder at the time of the examination. In her oral
evidence, Dr Staunton said that the mother's oral comprehension could be quite
weak; one needed to speak slowly and clearly to her in giving explanations.
However, in reply to cross-examination she said that
32. S.M.'s
reasoning was good if she could
"get
past the words used"
.
If matters were explained to her comprehensively and slowly she should be able
to understand.
33. In
relation to her education, S.M.'s own evidence was that she had left school at
the age of 18 because her father had told her she should sign on at the labour
exchange in order to bring in some money to the family; S.M. was one of
thirteen children. However, after leaving school she undertook a six month
training course in photography. She spoke of this with interest and
enthusiasm; she hoped to get a job in the field of journalistic photography but
unfortunately did not succeed in this aim. It seems to me, however, that she
had been reasonably successful in this training course, which must have
required a certain degree of ability and understanding. She subsequently
worked in a factory and in a newsagent's shop for a period, but for much of the
time relevant to this case she was unemployed and occupied in caring for her
two older children.
34. In
giving evidence before me S.M. appeared from time to time to have difficulty in
comprehending and answering questions put to her both by her own Counsel and,
more particularly, in cross examination. However, when matters were explained
to her clearly and in plain language without the use of legal vocabulary it
appeared to me that she had no great difficulty in understanding. On occasion
I felt that what appeared to be lack of comprehension was in fact a wish to
avoid what she saw (probably wrongly) as "trap" questions in cross-examination.
35. With
regard to stress S.M. drew attention to her situation vis à vis M.B.,
the father of R. I have little doubt that her association with M.B. was not
just physically violent but also a threat to her life. She gives evidence of
warnings given to her by members of the Garda Siochana and eventually she
states that M.B. was arrested due to information given by her to the Gardai.
He was, however, arrested on the 24th June, 1995 nearly six months before the
birth of R., and it was explained to her that he was most unlikely to be
released on bail. His plea of guilty removed any necessity there might have
been for her to give evidence. Unfortunately (although her evidence is not
very clear on this point) she seems to have become involved in tabloid
newspaper publicity which stated that she was the mother of M.B.'s child and
gave R.'s name. This publicity was apparently what caused Mr. and Mrs B. to
alter R.'s Christian name and to name him C.
36. Evidence
in regard to S.M.'s physical and mental health was given both by her general
practitioner Dr Malone and by Dr John Sheehan, Consultant Psychiatrist of the
Rotunda Hospital. Reports from both doctors were also handed into Court. Dr
Malone had been the mother's General Practitioner since 1985. I found his
evidence impressive; it was clear that his interest in and care for his patient
was of high quality. It appears from Dr Malone's report that during 1990 S.M.
suffered from depression after the birth of C., her eldest child, and had been
admitted to St Vincent's psychiatric hospital in Fairview. It is stated that
she had a history of physical abuse of her baby C. and had taken an overdose.
This would coincide with the period when C. was taken into care by the Eastern
Health Board. S.M., in her evidence, made no mention of this admission to
hospital or of the difficulty with C. She attributed blame for C.'s being
taken into care to an untruthful report by C.'s paternal relatives whom she had
asked to babysit. S.M. appears to have made a good recovery and did not suffer
depression at the time of the birth of her second child J. Between 1990 and
1995 her complaints appear to have been of various assaults, possibly by the
father of J.
37. Both
prior to and after the birth of R., S.M. attended Dr Malone complaining of
stress and anxiety and difficulties with sleeping. Twice during 1996 she
complained of panic episodes. In his oral evidence, Dr Malone explained that
at these times he had prescribed an anti-anxiety drug and a drug to help her
sleeping difficulties. He had prescribed short courses and low doses of these
drugs so as to prevent any danger of addiction. It seems probable that S.M.
was on a course of the drug to help her sleep at the time when she signed Form
10 in April 1996. Dr Malone in reply to Counsel for S.M. said that the
possible side effects of the drug which he had given her to help her to sleep
could include drowsiness and light-headedness. It could interfere with
concentration. In reply to cross-examination, however, he said that S.M. had
never complained of side effects. I myself asked the doctor whether in fact
S.M. appeared from his own observations to suffer from side effects and he
replied that she did not.
38. S.M.
appears to have been given no prescriptions by Dr Malone after June 1996. This
coincides with the beginning of her relationship with F O'D. However, she
attended Dr Malone again on the 25th September, 1996 complaining of feeling
down following attempted sexual abuse on her by a member of her own family.
There was no reference to this episode in S.M.'s own evidence but I completely
accept Dr Malone's evidence and his contemporaneous note.
39. Dr
Malone accepted that S.M. was of limited intelligence but was now doing a
reasonable job of rearing her children. In his experience with her if one
explained anything to her slowly she was then able to understand.
40. Dr
Sheehan, Consultant Psychiatrist, stated in evidence that S.M. had been
referred by Dr Malone to him in the Rotunda in October 1995 prior to the birth
of R.. She stated to him that she had never before attended a psychiatrist and
that she had a good relationship with her father and her siblings. She
complained of anxiety and sleeping difficulties. On interview with him she
appeared to be drinking fairly heavily and he advised her to give up alcohol
and to try to arrange for a member of her family to live in with her until
after the birth of her child. She told him of the background to her pregnancy
and of her plan to have her child adopted.
41. He
saw her again on 5th December, 1995, shortly before the birth. She had stopped
drinking and was coping better. She said she was benefiting from the help of
her social worker. He felt that there was no need for intervention or
treatment. She reiterated her plan to put up her baby for adoption. He felt
she was suffering from stress but not from any mental illness. He felt that
while she had limited abilities, she did understand him.
42. S.M.
was also interviewed and assessed by Dr Gerard Byrne, Consultant Child
Psychiatrist. This interview was carried out in the context of advising as to
the best interests of R. Dr Byrne in evidence said that he felt that S.M.'s
powers of understanding were limited to some degree, but that this depended on
the language used in speaking to her. He used simple language and checked that
she understood. His belief was that she understood what he said.
43. S.M.'s
second contention is that she never had any real understanding of the
difference between adoption and fostering and that this was not explained to
her by any of the social workers with whom she dealt. I would have to say that
I find this aspect of her evidence unreliable for a number of reasons.
Firstly, she had experience of adoption within her own family, as one of her
sisters was adopted. It appears that this sister was in fact the child of
another of her siblings and it is not clear whether the adoption was formal of
informal. However, in her answers to Miss Dooge in cross-examination, it was
clear that she knew that this adopted sister was a permanent member of the
family and was her sister in the same way as her other sisters. Her mother
also used the words "adopted" and "adoption" in regard to this sister.
44. Secondly,
she had considered the possibility of adoption when she was pregnant with her
second child J in 1993. She herself denies this in her evidence, but it is
clearly evidencedby contemporary documentary evidence and by the evidence of
Sheila McRory, a social worker in the Rotunda Hospital, which I accept. In a
letter dated 15th October, 1993 from Nora Mannion, who was then head social
worker in the Rotunda Hospital, interviews with S.M. are detailed in which she
discussed the possible adoption of her expected child either by one of her own
sisters or through an adoption society. At that stage she agreed to a referral
to St Louise's Adoption Society. However, towards the end of that pregnancy
she became more accepting of it and when J was born she decided to care for the
baby herself. I have, however, no doubt that the nature of adoption, as
opposed to fostering, was fully explained to her at that time.
45. Again,
when S.M. first called to see Sheila McRory in the Rotunda on the 27th
September, 1995 before the birth of R.. she explained her fears that because of
the circumstances of R.'s conception and the crimes of M.B., R.'s father, she
would take out her anger at M.B. on the baby and would not be able to care for
it. She clearly requested adoption. Ms McRory described a number of meetings
with S.M. during the period September to December 1995 and when S.M. was in the
Rotunda at the time of R.'s birth. She discussed the nature of adoption with
S.M. at these meetings on a number of occasions. She explained the role of the
adoption society and the link between St Louise's Adoption Society and the
Eastern Health Board. She put S.M. in touch with the social workers of St
Louise's Adoption Society and with Keith O'Reilly, the social worker who would
be dealing with her in her own community care area. Her evidence is that at
all times S.M. was adamant that she wanted adoption; she was not interested in
counselling about any alternative. In the light of Ms McRory's evidence, which
I accept and which is confirmed by contemporaneous documents, I cannot accept
S.M.'s evidence that Ms McRory never used the word adoption and that she cannot
recall any reference to an adoption society. Thirdly, S.M. had had actual
experience of relatively long term fostering in the case of her first child C.
who had been in the care of the Eastern Health Board pursuant to an order made
by the District Court from December 1990 to February 1992. During this period
of fostering S.M. had frequent access visits to C. These were arranged and
encouraged by the Eastern Health Board with a view to maintaining her
relationship with C. It appears that she was urged to increase and maintain
the frequency of these visits. She was also urged to attend, and did attend, a
course in parenting skills provided by the Health Board at Claide Mor so as to
prepare her for the possible return of her child. She had the advice of an
experienced legal aid Solicitor, Mr. Hugh Cunniam, in working towards the
return of her child. It appears from her own evidence that she somewhat
resented Mr. Cunniam's (perfectly correct) insistence that she should complete
the parenting course on which the decision of the District Court to return her
child to her custody might depend. Senior Counsel for the mother, Mr. McGrath,
urged upon the Court that S.M.'s experience of having had a child in fosterage
and having been able to reclaim that child would tend to convince her that the
same would apply to the adoption procedure. I cannot accept this submission.
The circumstances of C.'s fosterage, which was the result of an initial place
of safety Order and a subsequent Care Order, were entirely different from the
later placement of R. It is also incorrect to imply that S.M. could by her own
decision "reclaim" C. This decision fell to be made by the judge of the
District Court on the evidence available to her or him as regard S.M.'s ability
to care for C.
47. S.M.
when he visited her at her home on the 1st November, 1995 she was firm in her
request that her expected baby be adopted. He explained the difference between
fostering and adoption, stating in his evidence as follows:-
49. Mr.
O'Reilly believed at the time, and still believes, that S.M. understood the
distinction he was making between adoption and fostering.
50. There
is a fundamental clash between the evidence of S.M. and the evidence of Keith
O'Reilly on this as on many other points. I accept Mr. O'Reilly's evidence
that he did make clear to S.M. the difference between adoption and fostering on
this and on other occasions and I do not accept her evidence that she did not
understand the difference.
51. The
mother's third contention is that when she signed form 10 (the Agreement to
Placement for Adoption Form) on 9th April, 1996 her social worker Keith
O'Reilly did not give her any explanation whatsoever of the form and that she
had no understanding of it. She denied that Mr. O'Reilly had even read the
form to her. She did, however, admit in reply to cross-examination that Mr.
O'Reilly told her she might have to see a Solicitor and go to Court if she
wanted her child back. She also repeatedly denied that any counselling help
was offered to her at any time. This is in total contradiction of the evidence
both of Mr. O'Reilly and of Ms McRory who state that all times she was offered
counselling help but refused to avail of it.
52. Form
10, which is the statutory form under the Adoption Acts, is divided into two
parts. (The form is reproduced as an appendix to the judgment of the Supreme
Court in
O'C. v. Sacred Heart Adoption Society
.)
The first part is a memorandum setting out the effect of an Adoption Order, a
summary of the process of consent to the making of an Adoption Order, the bases
on which the consent of the natural mother may be dispensed with, and
instructions as to what steps the natural mother should take should she wish to
reclaim her child. This memorandum is headed "Memorandum to be furnished by
Registered Adoption Society to a Mother, Father or Guardian who proposes to
place a child with a Registered Adoption Society for Adoption" and is to be
detached from the second part which is headed "Receipt for Form 10". This part
acknowledges the receipt of the Memorandum as follows:-
53. It
also allows the mother to state any wishes she may have as to the religion in
which her child may be brought up.
54. S.M.
acknowledged that she signed this form and that it correctly reflected her wish
that she wanted her child to be brought up as a Roman Catholic. However, in
addition to stating that Keith O'Reilly did not give any explanation of the
form, she stated that she did not receive the Memorandum from him and that she
did not remember ever having such a document. She had, however, in fact given
the Memorandum to her solicitor who produced it to the Court.
55. Mr.
O'Reilly's evidence is that he explained Form 10 to S.M. carefully and in
simple language. In particular he made it clear that if she wanted to reclaim
R., the adoptive parents might go to Court and seek an Order dispensing with
her consent. If this happened the Court would decide whether or not her child
would be returned. After reading and explaining each paragraph of the form, he
asked S.M. if she understood and she stated that she did.
56. I
cannot accept the mother's evidence that she signed Form 10 with no explanation
being offered. Mr. O'Reilly had not dealt with this situation before but he
was a fully trained and qualified social worker, working under the supervision
and management of a senior social worker and in close touch with St. Louise
Adoption Society. It is inconceivable that he would behave in the way
suggested by S.M. Dr. Gerard Byrne, Consultant Psychiatrist, in his report
relates that S.M. said to him of Mr. O'Reilly,
"He is a sleeveen and a gangster. I want him done for that".
On my assessment of Mr. O'Reilly as a witness giving evidence before me for
some two days, this is a totally unwarranted allegation and I accept Mr.
O'Reilly's account of the meeting on the 9th April, 1996.
57. My
conclusion from this necessarily somewhat detailed survey of the evidence is
that S.M. on the 9th April, 1996 agreed to place her child R. for adoption.
This agreement to place, and my conclusions in regard to it, are confirmed by
the evidence in regard to the meeting held at the Health Centre on the 5th
June, 1996 at which both S.M. and Mr. and Mrs B. were present with their
respective social workers. S.M. states that she thought this meeting dealt
only with a change of foster parents. This is in complete contradiction with
the evidence not only of Keith O'Reilly but also of Mr. and Mrs B. and of Ann
Valentine, their social worker. Ms Valentine, a social worker with extensive
experience in the field of adoption who has worked for over 20 years with St.
Louise Adoption Society, gave evidence that it was quite clear to all that the
meeting was for the purpose of introducing S.M. to Mr. and Mrs B. as the couple
who would, with her approval, be adopting R. There was discussion of R's
education in future years and no discussion at all with regard to access by
S.M. to R. S.M. agreed that Mr. and Mrs B. should proceed to have R. baptised.
There was also discussion of a photograph or photographs to be sent to S.M. in
the future. Mr. and Mrs. B. also gave similar evidence of the nature of this
meeting. Their memory is that S.M. asked them to send her a photograph of R.
each year and a short note about his progress. Mrs B. says that S.M. explained
the reasons why she had decided to place R. for adoption and told them that he
had been conceived as a result of rape (Mr. and Mrs B. had not hitherto been
aware of this). S.M. went on to speak of what might happen when R. was 18 -
that he might be interested in finding out about her. Mr. B. recalls S.M.
explaining why she had to make this difficult decision to place R. for adoption
so that they could explain this to him in the future. All this evidence, which
I accept, shows S.M. as a mother who had, for the best of reasons and in the
interests of the welfare of R., agreed to place her child for adoption and had
specifically approved Mr. and Mrs. B. as adopters.
58. At
the time of her agreement to place S.M. was undoubtedly suffering from a degree
of stress. However, unlike the natural mothers in many of the cases with which
this Court has dealt in the past, there is no suggestion whatever that she was
put under any pressure to have her child adopted by either her parents or any
other person. She had adequate accommodation and an income in the form of
Social Welfare payments. She had already learned to cope as an unmarried
mother and was a good mother to her two older children. She was 27 years of age.
59. On
the test set out by Laffoy J. in
G.D.
v. C.M
.
her decision was manifestly her own decision, and I do not consider that it was
vitiated either by stress or by lack of understanding of what she was doing.
60. Later
in 1996 when she had established her relationship with F.O'D., who impressed me
as being both loving and supportive to her, her circumstances had changed and
she changed her mind and wished to reclaim R. It seems to me that a factor in
her change of mind and wish to reclaim R. was that she believed that she and F.
O'D. were unable to have children of their own for medical reasons. Happily,
that fear has proved to be unfounded. However, as was clearly stated by Finlay
P. (as he then was) in
S.
v. Eastern Health Board
,
a change of mind, whether sooner or later, does not vitiate the original
agreement to place.
61. I
should perhaps at this point refer to the fact that during the course of S.M.'s
evidence, there were a number of other matters which cast doubt on her
credibility and which inclined me to prefer the evidence of other witnesses.
As an example, she stated clearly that while F.O'D. purchased various items for
her, he did not pay her regular maintenance. F.O'D. also gave evidence and I
found him an impressive and reliable witness. His evidence was that he paid
S.M. £200 per week regularly by way of maintenance for herself and their
child. This I accept.
62. More
importantly, it was clear from contemporaneous documentary evidence from the
Rotunda Hospital that in 1993 S.M. claimed that the father of her expected
second child J. was one Michael Dixon. Nora Mannion, head social worker, in
her letter of 15th October, 1993 gives details of S.M.'s account of Michael
Dixon. There is also evidence that S.M.'s eldest child C. named Michael Dixon
as having been violent to her mother. Yet in her evidence before this Court,
S.M. repeatedly stated that the father of J. was P.H. who was also the father
of C. In reply to cross-examination, she stated that she had never heard of
Michael Dixon.
63. Having
accepted that S.M. is, in the words of the section, a person who has agreed to
place her child for adoption, I now pass to consider what is in the best
interests of R. In previous considerations of Section 3 of the 1974 Act, it
has been held that the use of the term "best interests" as opposed to the term
"welfare" as used, for example, in Section 3 of the Guardianship of Infants
Act, 1964, implies a consideration of long-term factors affecting the child's
future life in addition to matters which would affect the child's present
welfare. I am happy to adopt this approach.
64. There
is no challenge to the evidence both of Dr. Byrne and of Ms Valentine that R's
placement with Mr. and Mrs B. has been extremely successful. R. has formed a
strong and loving bond with both adoptive parents whom, naturally, he regards
as his mother and father. He has also formed bonds with members of their
extended family. Mr. B. has well paid and secure employment and is well
qualified to pursue his career as an analytical chemist. Mrs B's professional
qualification as a primary teacher will assist the couple in providing a good
education in future for R., a matter stressed by S.M. herself at the meeting of
the 5th June, 1996. At present Mrs B. is a full time mother but no doubt as R.
gets older she will be able to return to her career which will fit in well as
regards hours of work with R's needs.
65. Ms
Valentine gave detailed evidence of the assessment process used by St Louise's
Adoption Society through which Mr.. and Mrs B. were selected as suitable
parents for R. She was particularly impressed by their openness in discussion
and their ability to seek professional advice and to plan for the future.
66. The
position of S.M., the natural mother, has very greatly improved since the birth
of R. Her relationship with F.O'D, to whom she is now engaged to be married,
has given her both financial and loving support which she completely lacked in
her earlier relationships. Mr.. O'D. impressed me as a sensible, capable and
caring person. He is in good employment at present and has practical plans for
the future. He will shortly be in receipt of a capital sum from the disposal
of his father's business and will, I have no doubt, be able to achieve the
couple's plan of purchasing a house.
67. It
is also agreed that, whatever may have been her difficulties in the past, S.M.
is now a good and capable mother to her three other children. However, on my
observation of her in the witness box, I would have to agree with the evidence
of Dr. Gerard Byrne that she was somewhat lacking in insight and did not
properly understand or appreciate what it would mean to R., at 3 years of age,
to be removed from the care of those he knows as his parents and transferred to
the care of persons who, from his point of view, are strangers.
68. The
probable and possible effects of such a move have been discussed in many
previous cases and there is no need to repeat them in detail here. They are
summarised in the report of Dr. Byrne, a very experienced and highly regarded
child psychiatrist who has given evidence in many of these cases, as follows:-
70. However,
in this case there is an additional factor in regard to R's long term future
which must be considered. This is the history and indeed the future of his
father M.B., together with S.M.'s reaction to it. Before and at the time of
R's birth, S.M. completely rejected him on account of her feelings about M.B.
This was a very understandable reaction. She now feels, I accept very
sincerely, that she has put all this behind her and can love and care for R.
However, one cannot but be concerned as to what would be the long term effect
of this somewhat vulnerable woman's very natural hatred and fear of M.B. on her
relationship with M.B.'s child. There is also the extremely difficult question
as to how much R. should be told in the future about his father's background
and history and when he should be told this. S.M. comes from a family and a
community which will be aware of her past relationship with M.B. and the
paternity of R. I do not wish to attribute blame to her for this, but she has
proved unable to prevent intrusive and undesirable newspaper publicity about
both herself and her child in the past. Newspaper interest in the details of
M.B.'s crimes continues; even since the hearing of this case, the main daily
newspapers on the 20th November, 1998 carried major accounts with photographs
of the inquest into the deaths of M.B.'s two victims. It would prove difficult
for S.M. to protect R., in his early years at least, from undesirable
references to his paternity and background, and I have some doubts as to her
understanding of the necessity to do so.
71. Mr.
and Mrs B., on the other hand, are now fully aware of the facts of R's
paternity. They have discussed the difficult question of what R. should be
told and when at great length with Ms Valentine. She feels that they have the
ability to seek professional support in this regard in the future and that they
will be able to handle the situation in R's best interests. In their care, R.
also has the advantage that his background is unknown to those who will
surround him as he grows up and he will be accepted as and for himself.
72. I
have carefully weighed up the evidence available to me in regard to R's best
interests and it appears to me that his best interests lie in remaining in the
custody and care of Mr. and Mrs B. and, if An Bord Uchtala so decides, in
having the security of becoming their child through adoption.
73. I
will accordingly make an Order dispensing with the consent of the mother, S.M.,
to the making of an Adoption Order in respect of R., together with an Order
granting Mr. and Mrs B. sole custody of R. for a period of six months to enable
An Bord Uchtala to consider the making of an Adoption Order. In the case of
any delay which occurs, I will give liberty to apply.
74. In
his judgment in
O'C.
v. Sacred Heart Adoption Society
,
O'Flaherty J. drew attention to the desirability of the Court in these cases
also making an Order pursuant to the Guardianship of Infants Act proceedings so
as to cover the situation which might arise if, under any circumstances, the
making of an Adoption Order proved impossible. While I respectfully accept the
dictum of the learned Supreme Court Judge, I do not at present feel that it is
possible for me to make such an Order which would involve considerations such
as access to R. by his mother. During the course of the hearing, and bearing
in mind the view of the learned O'Flaherty J., I specifically put to Mrs B.
what her attitude would be to a situation where she and her husband would have
custody of R. but where no Adoption Order would be made and S.M. would have
access. She replied that the couple had not fully considered such a situation.
Naturally and rightly she wished to discuss the matter fully with her husband
before coming to any such decision. While, therefore, I consider on the
general evidence that it would be in the interests of R's welfare to remain in
the custody of Mr. and Mrs B., I do not feel able at this point to make an
Order in the Guardianship of Infants Act proceedings. Should the necessity
arise, this Court would have to hear further evidence before making such an
Order. I will therefore make no Order in the Guardianship of Infants Act
proceedings brought by the mother.